Emma and her grandma shared a childlike enthusiasm for the holidays that didn’t wane with age. Emma loved to get dressed up and Gram was always the one who made sure she was well-outfitted, hats and all. And no one loves a party more than Gram and Emma, especially a tea party, because, of course, you get to wear hats!
But I think the thing that linked them most is their generosity. Both Gram and Emma redefined generosity for me. It’s true that they were generous in the usual sense. Both would gladly give the shirts off their backs to make you happy. They found enormous joy in finding the perfect gift or making a wish come true. But they were also generous in spirit, opening themselves up to people without any expectations of getting something back. Sometimes their openness was perceived as naiveté. They never questioned people’s motivations or intentions. They didn’t fret about getting hurt or cheated. They jumped into people’s lives with both feet. And because they were willing to do that, both Emma and Gram have touched many, many people in ways that they will never forget.
Happy birthday, Gram.
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